Comments on: Bring on the controversy http://www.idiotparade.net/?p=265 the first of many stupid mistakes that take place before decapitation Thu, 30 Sep 2010 03:55:18 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.1 By: Renee http://www.idiotparade.net/?p=265&cpage=1#comment-409 Renee Tue, 27 Oct 2009 16:23:09 +0000 http://www.idiotparade.net/?p=265#comment-409 I agree, I don't see a difference either. I understand people who feel it was the best choice they could make even if I disagree. But let's be honest about what is happening. I agree, I don’t see a difference either. I understand people who feel it was the best choice they could make even if I disagree. But let’s be honest about what is happening.

]]> By: m. http://www.idiotparade.net/?p=265&cpage=1#comment-407 m. Tue, 27 Oct 2009 04:26:10 +0000 http://www.idiotparade.net/?p=265#comment-407 If a woman wants a baby and means to get pregnant and she has a miscarriage,it would certainly be great loss to her. The baby is something, some one, she wanted and chose to bring into the world. If on the other hand the woman did not wish to become pregnant and terminated her pregnancy, then I don't imagine she would feel the same sense of loss. Loss, sadness, most likely, I don't think anyone would be happy about terminating a preganancy, but for some it is the best answer for a very difficult question. If a woman wants a baby and means to get pregnant and she has a miscarriage,it would certainly be great loss to her. The baby is something, some one, she wanted and chose to bring into the world. If on the other hand the woman did not wish to become pregnant and terminated her pregnancy, then I don’t imagine she would feel the same sense of loss. Loss, sadness, most likely, I don’t think anyone would be happy about terminating a preganancy, but for some it is the best answer for a very difficult question.

]]> By: Liz Levine http://www.idiotparade.net/?p=265&cpage=1#comment-406 Liz Levine Tue, 27 Oct 2009 04:11:15 +0000 http://www.idiotparade.net/?p=265#comment-406 It's really a very individual thing and I think it depends on the circumstances of the pregnancy. What mother would bond with a zygote conceived in rape? Then there are the young and stupid who eschew contraception only to wind up pregnant and are not willing to accept such a drastic change in their chosen life path. I'm one of those who suffered a miscarriage at seven week's gestation. Actually it was a missed miscarriage, meaning the embryo lost viability within my uterus, but my body did not expel it. I had to undergo a D&C, a procedure to clean out my uterus. Was I attached to that seven week old zygote? You betcha. But then I had wanted to give life to a new human, but it wasn't meant to be. Would I force any other woman to carry a fetus she did not want? Hell no. It's up to her to decide what to do. It’s really a very individual thing and I think it depends on the circumstances of the pregnancy. What mother would bond with a zygote conceived in rape? Then there are the young and stupid who eschew contraception only to wind up pregnant and are not willing to accept such a drastic change in their chosen life path.

I’m one of those who suffered a miscarriage at seven week’s gestation. Actually it was a missed miscarriage, meaning the embryo lost viability within my uterus, but my body did not expel it. I had to undergo a D&C, a procedure to clean out my uterus. Was I attached to that seven week old zygote? You betcha. But then I had wanted to give life to a new human, but it wasn’t meant to be. Would I force any other woman to carry a fetus she did not want? Hell no. It’s up to her to decide what to do.

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