Comments on: Movin on up http://www.idiotparade.net/?p=214 the first of many stupid mistakes that take place before decapitation Thu, 30 Sep 2010 03:55:18 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.1 By: Edward http://www.idiotparade.net/?p=214&cpage=1#comment-260 Edward Sat, 25 Jul 2009 02:43:00 +0000 http://www.idiotparade.net/?p=214#comment-260 I don't think she was asking whether she should move in or not, just if anyone had similar experiences with moving out/moving in jitters. In response to Charlie though. How can one make a legitamate promise to stay with someone forever (i.e. a marriage bond) if they don't know if they can handle being with the same person 24/7? Seeing someone all the time like that is a lot different than once a week on a date. You say you've seen playing house "ruin a relationship" I say better to ruin the relationship while you are still just boyfriend & girlfriend than to have to go through the mess of a divorce. If a couple can't live with each other, being married isn't going to change that. I don’t think she was asking whether she should move in or not, just if anyone had similar experiences with moving out/moving in jitters.

In response to Charlie though. How can one make a legitamate promise to stay with someone forever (i.e. a marriage bond) if they don’t know if they can handle being with the same person 24/7? Seeing someone all the time like that is a lot different than once a week on a date. You say you’ve seen playing house “ruin a relationship” I say better to ruin the relationship while you are still just boyfriend & girlfriend than to have to go through the mess of a divorce. If a couple can’t live with each other, being married isn’t going to change that.

]]> By: Charlie http://www.idiotparade.net/?p=214&cpage=1#comment-258 Charlie Thu, 23 Jul 2009 18:19:34 +0000 http://www.idiotparade.net/?p=214#comment-258 I hesitate to offer my opinion on this because I don't think it will be very popular nor do I think it's what either of you will want to hear... plus I don't want to hurt any feelings. Nonetheless: I think moving in together is a mistake for any couple who isn't married. Time and time again I've seen "playing house" ruin a relationship; for myself and my friends. I hesitate to offer my opinion on this because I don’t think it will be very popular nor do I think it’s what either of you will want to hear… plus I don’t want to hurt any feelings. Nonetheless:

I think moving in together is a mistake for any couple who isn’t married. Time and time again I’ve seen “playing house” ruin a relationship; for myself and my friends.

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